This isn’t another book about ‘being more vulnerable’ or ‘finding balance.’ It’s for people who need to stay steady when everything around them is always shifting.
If you lead teams, run projects, or make high-stakes decisions, you already know how lonely it can get. The pressure is constant, and the system rarely helps. Stubbornly Resilient gives you a way to move through all that without losing yourself along the way.
I’ve built my career around global business, complex negotiations, and visionary entrepreneurs, despite starting out as a neurodivergent student who struggled to fit in. Those experiences led me to find a way to connect deeply and stay strategic at the same time. What came out of that is this book: a guide for people who need to lead without the armour.
It’s not a theory. It’s my strategy.
If you lead teams, run projects, or make high-stakes decisions, you already know how lonely it can get. The pressure is constant, and the system rarely helps. Stubbornly Resilient gives you a way to move through all that without losing yourself along the way.
I’ve built my career around global business, complex negotiations, and visionary entrepreneurs, despite starting out as a neurodivergent student who struggled to fit in. Those experiences led me to find a way to connect deeply and stay strategic at the same time. What came out of that is this book: a guide for people who need to lead without the armour.
It’s not a theory. It’s my strategy.
Why This Book Exists
What You’ll Learn
In these chapters you will see why the techniques we call “soft skills” are in fact the hardest to master, and why staying human under pressure is now a decisive advantage. You will read how the ability to read a room, pick up cues quickly, and negotiate without losing credibility shapes outcomes more than strategy alone.
You will see why true authority comes from self-knowledge, not performance; why outmaneuvering protects relationships better than confrontation; and why choosing the right influences is a form of professional survival.
You will learn what consultative selling looks like when done with integrity, and how a simple notebook can become a powerful tool when your mind refuses to switch off.
You will see why true authority comes from self-knowledge, not performance; why outmaneuvering protects relationships better than confrontation; and why choosing the right influences is a form of professional survival.
You will learn what consultative selling looks like when done with integrity, and how a simple notebook can become a powerful tool when your mind refuses to switch off.
Why It Matters
We are moving into a world where leadership is no longer defined by titles or performance but by who you become when pressure exposes the cracks. People will remember the colleague who stayed honest when silence was easier, the partner who understood that resilience isn’t pretending to cope, and the leader who knew that strategy matters more than sacrifice. These are the moments that separate those who simply work hard from those who make progress.
This book is not here to glorify toughness. It is here to show that strength grows in the moments we would rather avoid—the illness we hide, the alliances we need, the truths we fear, and yes, even the iguana we never meant to eat. If you can lead with connection, trust, and real courage, you won’t just endure pressure—you’ll become the person others rely on.
This book is not here to glorify toughness. It is here to show that strength grows in the moments we would rather avoid—the illness we hide, the alliances we need, the truths we fear, and yes, even the iguana we never meant to eat. If you can lead with connection, trust, and real courage, you won’t just endure pressure—you’ll become the person others rely on.
Why you should buy this book.
By ordering your copy now, you will receive the book directly through my website or via Amazon, with the option of a personally signed edition when purchased on my site. You can also request discounted bulk orders for companies and organisations, making it easy to share the ideas with your teams and clients.
A final word
Human connection is your most valuable asset. Stubbornly Resilient helps you see it, use it, and protect it. This is not about looking tough or pretending to cope—it is about real resilience rooted in trust, strategy, and connection. If you’re rethinking how you lead, or you know someone who is, start here.
Order your copy today from Amazon.
If it resonates, leave a review. It helps the right readers find it. And it helps me fight the algorithms keeping me from telling my story.
A final word
Human connection is your most valuable asset. Stubbornly Resilient helps you see it, use it, and protect it. This is not about looking tough or pretending to cope—it is about real resilience rooted in trust, strategy, and connection. If you’re rethinking how you lead, or you know someone who is, start here.
Order your copy today from Amazon.
If it resonates, leave a review. It helps the right readers find it. And it helps me fight the algorithms keeping me from telling my story.